Grillopark

Cruising Areas in Oberhausen, Germany
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The Grillopark is a formal park of a little over a hectare in the Marienviertel, laid out directly in front of Oberhausen town hall and a few minutes on foot from the main station. It was built on a former gravel pit and finished in the 1880s for the industrialist whose name it carries. The present layout dates from 2000 and deliberately follows the look of the 1920s.

It is mostly lawn and paths, with mature trees, hedges, perennial beds and seasonal flower planting, and a terraced flight of steps that drops towards the town hall. The main way in is from Schwartzstraße, and every bus serving the main station stops within a short walk.

Men have long used the quieter end, towards Tannenbergstraße and the health office, for cruising. This is a small city-centre park overlooked by the town hall and by flats, not woodland, so there is very little cover and discretion counts for more here than it would out of town.

Where it is Grillopark
Schwartzstraße
46045 Oberhausen
Germany
How to get there 51.4740835, 6.859267 Directions Open in OpenStreetMap
Good to know Public ground, with nobody running it. There are no opening hours and no one to contact, and what you find here changes with the season and the time of day.

The law in Germany

Rainbow Index 69.54 %, from the ILGA-Europe Rainbow Map, which rates the legal and policy situation for LGBTQ+ people in each country.

Legal status
The history of LGBT rights in Germany is deeply shaped by its division during the Cold War. Unlike Austria, where changes were largely driven by the courts, Germany’s path involved two separate legal systems (East and West) that eventually merged, followed by legislative pushes in the federal parliament (Bundestag) to achieve full equality.

Here is the historical overview of the legalization of homosexuality and gay rights in Germany.

Phase I: The Shadow of Paragraph 175 (1871–1945)
For over a century, German life for gay men was dominated by Paragraph 175, a statute in the criminal code that banned sexual acts between men.

1871: The German Empire enacts Paragraph 175, criminalizing "unnatural fornication" between men.

1935 (Nazi Era): The Nazi regime drastically expands Paragraph 175. The requirement for physical contact is removed—a mere "lustful glance" could be prosecuted. The maximum penalty is increased to ten years of hard labor.

Estimates suggest over 100,000 men were arrested; between 5,000 and 15,000 were sent to concentration camps, where they were marked with the Pink Triangle.

1945: After WWII, while many Nazi laws were repealed, Paragraph 175 remained in force in both East and West Germany.

Phase II: A Divided Nation (1949–1990)
East and West Germany took very different paths regarding gay rights. Surprisingly, the communist East decriminalized homosexuality significantly earlier than the democratic West.

West Germany (Federal Republic of Germany)
1949–1969: The West German government retained the harsh Nazi version of Paragraph 175. Police raids and trials continued intensely; approximately 50,000 men were convicted during this era.

1969: A major reform decriminalizes homosexual acts between men over the age of 21.

1973: The age of consent for gay men is lowered to 18 (while it was 14 for heterosexuals), keeping a discriminatory distinction in place.

East Germany (German Democratic Republic)
1950: The East German judiciary reverts to the pre-Nazi (1871) version of Paragraph 175, making it slightly more lenient than the West.

1968: East Germany introduces a new penal code. Paragraph 175 is repealed entirely. It is replaced by Paragraph 151, which still sets a discriminatory age of consent (18 for same-sex acts, 16 for heterosexual acts).

1988: The East German parliament repeals Paragraph 151. Homosexuality is now fully legal with the same age of consent as heterosexuals, a year before the Berlin Wall falls.

Phase III: Reunification & The Final Repeal (1990–2001)
Following reunification in 1990, the new federal government had to reconcile the two legal systems. The West's discriminatory laws initially prevailed, but pressure mounted to remove them.

1994: Paragraph 175 is abolished for good. As part of the post-unification legal harmonization, the discriminatory age of consent is removed. The age of consent is equalized at 14 (and 16 in cases of authority/dependency) for everyone, regardless of gender.

2001: Registered Life Partnerships (Eingetragene Lebenspartnerschaft) are introduced. Germany becomes one of the first major countries to offer legal recognition to same-sex couples. It provided many rights of marriage (inheritance, health insurance) but lacked key rights regarding taxes and adoption.

Phase IV: The Push for Marriage & Rehabilitation (2001–Present)
The final phase focused on closing the gap between "partnership" and "marriage," often driven by public pressure and the Federal Constitutional Court forcing the government to update tax and adoption laws.

2004: Step-child adoption is legalized for registered partners (adopting the biological child of a partner).

2013: The Federal Constitutional Court rules that banning successive adoption (adopting a child the partner had already adopted) is unconstitutional.

2017 (June): Rehabilitation of Victims. The Bundestag votes to annul the convictions of the 64,000 men convicted under Paragraph 175 after WWII and offers them financial compensation.

2017 (October): Marriage Equality. After years of blocking the vote, Chancellor Angela Merkel allows a "conscience vote" in parliament. The bill passes, and on October 1, 2017, same-sex marriage becomes legal. Full joint adoption rights are granted simultaneously.

2020: A nationwide ban on conversion therapy for minors is enacted.
Travel tips
Germany is very safe for LGBTQ travelers. Berlin, in particular, is known as one of the most LGBTQ-friendly cities in the world. Public displays of affection are generally accepted in urban areas. Pride events are celebrated in many cities throughout the year.

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